Why Wont He Marry Me You Could Be In Love With A Stringer-www.haole10.com

News-and-Society Does your situation seem eerily similar to this: "Why won’t he marry me? We’ve been dating now for several years. I’m deeply in love with him and I know he loves me too. But he just won’t put a ring on my finger. What am I doing wrong? Why won’t he .mit?" The sounds of confusion and frustration are evident in the voice of a woman who seems stuck with a man who is the epitome of a .mitment phobe. Worse yet, when a man won’t .mit to you, it starts to make you feel like it’s your fault. It makes you feel like maybe you’re not doing something right in the relationship. Not knowing what’s going on his mind puts further stress on you and the relationship. Then, if you ask him about it, he probably gets defensive and the added pressure may push the thought of marriage even further from his mind. So what’s a girl to do? Why Won’t He Marry Me? A Closer Look At Your Man’s .mitment Phobia When men were asked why they stayed in relationships with women for long periods of time without proposing, the most .mon answers included: 1.) Fears over finances. 2.) Familiarity and the feeling of being .fortable in the relationship. In other words, if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. 3.) Fears from being hurt in previous marriages. 4.) Fear of responsibility and loss of the bachelor lifestyle. 5.) Worrying their girlfriend will change once she be.es a wife. 6.) Not ready for a family and the added responsibilities of being a father and husband. As you can see, men have a long list of fears when it .es to asking for your hand in marriage. If you want to get him to propose, then you’ll need to do what you can to alleviate some of those fears. For example, let him know you are financial partners so he doesn’t feel like the entire burden is falling on him to support everyone. In the worst case scenario, your man is a "stringer" and has no intention of ever marrying you or anyone else. Stringers enjoy the .pany of a woman, but they have no desire to get tied down permanently to anyone. If you suspect this is the case, then you’ll have some difficult decisions to make moving forward. You have every right to leave if his idea of the future and your idea of the future don’t meet eye to eye. About the Author: 相关的主题文章: